#5 is a common thing and it happens in other games as well. It also makes perfect sense to run yourself over if you are still moving. My suggestion would be to stop completely before getting out and make sure that you are not to close to a structure as well.
#2 has been explained already before. As we all know already that we would like to have an option to put us in the map of our choosing. But the way that they preferred map works does not do that and it is not intended to.
Frankly the way that the servers are set up for consoles is a bit different than the PC versions for the most part. I never did like the way that console servers were set up.
Also I personally would prefer to have the same thing as the PC versions when it comes to server selection; but that is not going to happen. At least not for this game.
The Helicopter Damage one made me laugh.
Although it is a decent question to ask them. A bit strange but decent. I think having it explode when it crashes is better looking than having it just fall to the ground and be all mangled up.
Other than those three your list seems pretty good. Even though I have not personally experienced some of them.
